DIGGING DEEP — UNAPOLOGETICALLY ME

 

 

 

Answered 4m ago

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What is it like to be an INFJ?

I can only speak for myself as an INFJ and I hope this clarifies many misconceptions.

  • SEEING EVERYTHING IN 3 DIMENSIONS

Ex. A person crying- CRYING IS NOT JUST AN ACT DONE BY A PERSON. I DIG DEEPER INTO THAT, AND SEE IT AS A MANIFESTATION OF SOMETHING THAT ONLY THE DOER UNDERSTANDS.THEN I WOULD PROCEED TO BEING EMPATHETIC, PUTTING MYSELF INTO THAT PERSON’S SHOES.

  • WANTS ORDER

MY BRAIN IS WIRED ON HAVING MY SURROUNDINGS CLEAN AND TIDY AT ALL TIMES. I CANNOT FUNCTION IN A DISORGANIZED ENVIRONMENT.

  • EXTREMELY BORED WITH GOSSIP

BECAUSE OF THIS I HAVE NO RESPECT FOR THOSE WHO ENGAGE IN SMALL TALKS

  • I PREFER STRAIGHT TALK

TIME IS PRECIOUS AND I DO NOT APPRECIATE THAT “BEATING AROUND THE BUSH” BEHAVIOR.

  • VISUAL

I APPRECIATE PEOPLE WHO WOULD GO AN EXTRA MILE TO INCORPORATE ART IN JUST ABOUT EVERYTHING.

  • WANTS TO BE LEFT ALONE

BEING A LONER WOLF ALLOWS ME TO FOCUS BETTER ON MY TASKS. WORKING IN A GROUP IS DOABLE BUT I PREFER DOING IT MYSELF.

  • HIGHLY SENSITIVE TO PEOPLES VIBES

THIS IS SOMETHING THAT USUALLY DRAINS ME OUT. LITERALLY I AM BEING SICK TO MY STOMACH BEING AROUND “TOXIC PEOPLE”.

  • ENERGIZED BY MUSIC

MUSIC IS MY THERAPY, IT ALLOWS ME TO RECHARGE

  • SARCASTIC AND STRAIGHT FORWARD ONCE PROVOKED

NOT MUCH OF A TALKER MYSELF BUT I DO NOT HESITATE MAKING SHALLOW PEOPLE FEEL SMALL ABOUT THEMSELVES, SHOULD THEY CHOOSE TO PUSH MY BUTTONS. I WOULD USUALLY CONFRONT UNEXPECTEDLY, NO NEED FOR AN AUDIENCE, JUST ONE ON ONE.

  • FORGIVING AND FORGETTING ARE TWO DIFFERENT THINGS

I HAVE A VERY VIVID AND DETAILED MEMORY

  • OBSERVANT

PREFERS LISTENING THAN TALKING

  • OBJECTIVE AND PRACTICAL

ABLE TO SET ASIDE EMOTIONS WHEN NEEDED SO LONG AS NO HARM IS INVOLVED. PATIENTLY WAITS FOR THE RIGHT TIME TO EXECUTE A PLAN

 

  • I HAVE A DARKSIDE
  • …AND I CALL IT, COUNTER MANIPULATION. DO NOT MESS WITH SOMEONE WHO WANTS NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU

  • DEEP CONNECTION WITH NATURE
  • ANIMALS JUST SHOW UP ON MY DOORSTEP. WELL MAYBE NOT ON THE DOORSTEP LITERALLY BUT USUALLY I DON’T FIND THEM THEY FIND ME.

  • CHAMELEON
  • HOW I TREAT YOU DEPENDS ON HOW YOU TREAT ME. I AM NOT TRYING HARD TO BE A SAINT.

  • AUTONOMOUS
  • YOU DO NOT TELL ME WHAT TO DO.

  • BURNS BRIDGES
  • TOXIC PEOPLE HAVE NO SPACE IN MY LIFE. I HAVE NO RESPECT FOR THEM AND THEY DO NOT DESERVE ANY EXPLANATION ABOUT MY DISAPPEARING ACT.

  • SELECTIVE
  • AN EMPATH NEEDS TO RESERVE ENERGY AND STOP WASTING IT AWAY ON SUCH UNDESERVING ACQUAINTANCES AND RELATIONS.

  • LOVER OF INFORMATION
  • BOOKS AND DOCUMENTARIES ENTERTAIN ME LIKE NO OTHER

  • GO GETTER AND COMPETES ONLY WITH ONESELF
  • I WANT TO GET THINGS DONE ASAP AND I DO NOT ENJOY COMPETING WITH ANOTHER PERSON

  • PERSONAL BOUNDARY IS EVERYTHING

I LIKE KEEPING PEOPLE ARMS LENGTH. I ONLY SHOW THEM WHAT I WANT THEM TO SEE. IN THE END I AM THE ONLY ONE WHO KNOWS WHO I REALLY AM. THIS IS WHY IF I DO NOT SEE YOU AS A FRIEND YOU WON’T BE INVITED IN MY HOME.

  • LESS TALK MORE ACTION

I WOULD ONLY TALK ABOUT SOMETHING WITH SOLID PROOF IN MY HANDS.

  • WRITER BY HEART

WRITING AMONG OTHERS IS MAINLY FOR SELF EXPRESSION. THE FREEDOM OF PUTTING POWERFUL THOUGHTS INTO LOVELY WORDS IS JUST PRECIOUS, AND IT HELPS ME UNLOAD MY THOUGHTS TO GIVE WAY FOR NEW IDEAS.

  • KEEPING IT BLACK AND WHITE

IF YOU AGREE WITH ME THEN GOOD, IF NOT THEN FINE. JUST DO YOUR THING, DON’T BE SUCH A TOXIC PERSON AND STAY AWAY.

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